Vikas Choudhary has been a Relationship counselor for the past 6-7 years. He loves his job and his passion for helping couples to sort out their relationship problems.
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Emotional Intelligence or Emotional Quotient refers to the power of control and management of a human being on his emotions. Emotional Quotient and Intelligent Quotient (IQ) are two different things. Nowadays, the major problem observed in relationships is the lack of emotional intelligence among people due to which issues and problems arise. Nobody teaches emotional intelligence in schools or colleges but life teaches us emotional intelligence in a hard way. When you can get a hold of your emotional intelligence, you will be able to manage your relationships much better and accurately understand them.
A scenario of Relationship Nowadays
Every second person in society has faced heartbreak at some point in their lives. The young generation believes that we live in a hookup culture where minimal importance is given to relationships, loyalty, and understanding. A lot of allegations are being put against both the boy and the girl when a relationship doesn’t end well and there are a lot of reasons behind this. Sometimes there is a lack of understanding and sometimes one person doesn’t even give a half hour out of the entire day to their partner. Some people believe that Loyalty and Understanding are hard to find the days when everybody wants to hook up. Vikas Choudhary has observed some of the rare relationship problems which took a lot of time for resolving.
Breakups and Heartbreaks
The period of 6 to 18 months is very crucial in a relationship. Most of the breakups happen in this phase only and there is only one reason behind this. From 6 to 18 months, you get to know a person well. The happy and lovey-dovey phase gets over you both face the realities of life. And in this situation, fights will occur. It all depends on you in the end how will you deal with those fights and arguments. If you have crossed 18 months in a relationship, then it is time that you should think about this seriously for your future.
After 5-6 years in a relationship, your emotional needs change as well. You try to change your partner in a certain manner you want him/her to be on an emotional level. There has been a saying in society that girls move on quite early as compared to boys. According to Vikas Choudhary, this statement has seen no confirming statistics. There are many cases in which the situation of girls is worst than that of a boy and vice-versa.
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